WHEN YOU HEAR THAT
what doom loop immediately
goes off in your mind?
Is it the feeling of being:
embarrassed, or even
Maybe a mix of all of the above?
have people going around being rewarded for assuming that worth as a BIPOC native speaker directly correlates with how “well” you perform:
nailing the "perfect accent"
passing as "native" (whatever that means)
rattling off a "perfect" knowledge of the ABCs of your history and birth culture
In this fractured paradigm, it's as if you're expected to entertain a mimicry of both your native culture and the one you're born into to earn your way into conditional legitimacy.
assimilationist culture & bad pedagogy
THE TRUTH IS
THIS ALL MAY
lead you to start:
questioning your own worth insofar as your cultural relevance, birthright, and identity go
feeling pressured into learning and speaking “fluently” aaalll the languages that come with your birthplace and your bloodline
feeling insecure and inadequate when it comes to speaking publicly in your native language, especially in rooms full of “bred-and-born (fellow) native speakers”
feeling like the odd one out at dinner parties with the fam because you were born “here” and not “there”
That’s because, same as you, being a BIPOC third culture native, I had to learn how to:
reclaim my roots on my own terms beyond the feelings of shame, inadequacy, and hurt, by coming into my own through the development of an unwavering sense of self as a culturally fluid being
speak like never before (in aaallll my languages!) with great fluency right from day 01 by claiming and owning my self-determined self-expression
IT'S PARTICULARLY TRICKY TO (RE)LEARN NOT ONLY YOUR ANCESTRAL LEGACY, CULTURE, HISTORY, AND ITS LANGUAGE, BUT ALSO, MORE IMPORTANTLY;
"where do i fit in?"
I MEAN, I WAS
too Black to be Canadian ...
... too Western to be Afro.
No book, schooling, or training teaches you how to harmonize the totality of your identity and lived experience into a state of cultural and linguistic fluency that subsumes grammar, speaking, self-expression, and the third culture experience, under one high-impact experiential learning journey.
To boot, I was too advanced to be a beginner, but too stuck when it came to public speaking to be a true intermediate.
I was caught in the middle. Stuck in the in-between.
Figuratively and literally.
Linguistically and identitarily.
but wait for it
HERE'S THE BEST PART.
You are not the problem. Read that again.
As James Clear says (I’m paraphrasing a little bit here): “You do not rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems.”
In other words, the reason why you haven’t mastered your native language yet (and everything that comes with it) is because:
you don’t even know how you learn (yet), let alone how you learn languages
you’re being reactive towards the pressure to pass and conform by trying to perform legitimacy to the wrong audience (and yes, that includes your family!)
you’re trying to fit into either cultures as if they are indeed a fixist monolith at the cost of living out your truest self-expression and self-determination
you have a scattered fits-and-starts way of jumping in and out of the process because you lack clear focus, guidance, discipline, direction, methodology, and motivation
you let “life” get in the way of your heart’s truest desires by entertaining the overwhelm, overload, fatigue, stress, and pressure of your daily “busy-iness” in ways that prevent you from being truly present and available for the journey of reclaiming your roots
HERE'S THE KICKER:
You do NOT have to choose between:
or the other
and your identity
and your heart's desires
OWNING WHO YOU ARE ...
with purpose, on purpose, with language and culture as your vessels, doesn’t have to be;
if it is, it's because ...
THERE'S PROBABLY SOMETHING ...
you're doing wrong, unbeknowst to you.
And what that happens that’s when you end up writing yourself off by saying your own variation of;
not my thing”
several languages at once" (especially whilst juggling work, school, family, etc.)
don’t have that ‘language gene’”
not enough time in the day for me to study"
Have You Ever Thought That ...
it isn’t what you are doing that’s the problem, but rather how you’re doing it?
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IF YOU HAVE EVER:
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run away from the phone whenever mom was trying to get you to talk with grandma back home because of how ashamed and uncomfortable you were when it came to speaking with fam and fellow natives
TALKED THE TALK OF PASSING DOWN YOUR NATIVE LANGUAGE AND BIRTH CULTURE TO YOUR (FUTURE) KIDS AND FAM WITHOUT EVER GETTING AROUND TO SPEAKING IT FOR YOURSELF
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